Friday, October 26, 2012

Life is a Race



“Life is a Race” is a famous quote from a famous bollywood movie. I totally agree to the line of thought. Can everyone win this race? Are we competing with fellow runners or is it our own self that we want to outdo? To be better than the rest or to be better than what you were? Books and lessons at school and by parents taught us that you have to constantly improve your capabilities and not compare yourself with others. This line of thought has definitely undergone a sedimentary change.
                In this competitive market, like goods have to differentiate themselves in order to sell, we as people also have to have the out-of-ordinary traits to prove ourselves. Like in the last millennium, whatever was produced by the manufacturers had to be bought by the consumers as there were no substitutes and there was no competition. Similarly, in the last millennium, there was less number of people running in this race of life and competing in all the spheres.
                So as the marketing Gurus teach us that are product has to have some ‘points of difference’ in order to make ‘unique positive associations’, we as individuals also need to have some distinctive capabilities that will help us beat the rest. Corollary to what was taught to us, it will never be about only participation, the need of the hour is competition and the will to be in it, run the race, and try to win by doing your best.

                                                      “You can no more ask
                                                       ‘Friends Romans and Countrymen’
                                                       to lend you their ears.
                                                       You have to win their
                                                       ears and make them listen.”

What will make me win this race? Is it Speed or is it Discretion? Do I just keep running at the maximum speed possible, or do I stop and think and chose my directions? Teachers and Parents taught me that the right path will take you forward. And the right path will be slow, will give you tough times but will make you strong. Has this philosophy changed with change in times? Has the definition of right path been tweaked?
I like many of you stand on such crossroads; I see a faster quicker path and have a slower longer one too. All throughout I have chosen the latter one. But this time I feel unsure about taking the longer one. I have this urge to take the faster route. The faster route will help me prove to world, for I have a desire to making it big and not just proving it to my own self. But for now, I have paused, am in deep thought and finding out a mid way; a fast one so that I can prove it to the world, also longer so that I can build myself like my parents and teachers taught.
                                            Will I get the speed and discretion combined?